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Not For Lazy MomsWe Want It All.We Do It All.
What mom is lazy? Being a mother is one of the most challenging, yet fulfilling jobs you can ever experience. It requires wearing several hats and using several hands to multitask and get the jobs done.
Not for Lazy Moms is a community for new generation moms who want it all and do it all. We strive to be the best versions of ourselves - in our parenting, relationships, careers, and self-care. This is a site for everyone!
Confessions: My Daughter’s Vitiligo Has Been An Ongoing Journey
The last thing I thought about after struggling to have a child for 3 years, is that I would have a child with a serious skin condition.
Ways to Help Your Child in the Midst of Transitions
Try these tips to help you and your child navigate a successful school year.
Making Something Out of Nothing with Special Guest, Author, Daneen Quarles!
Monique and Riley, joined by Daneen Quarles, discuss how to use our time wisely. Are you busy being Busy or Productive?
Quarantine Life Taught Me How To…. Be A Boss
Are you a new person now that you've come out of the house? What have you learned about yourself? Or do you feel you have achieved little during this time? What is blocking you from success?
Ditching The Diaper Bag
“Mom’s Bag” to “Our Bag” – Shop Transitional Totes to Hold Everybody’s Stuff
My Underwater Maternity Shoot
I tackled my fear of water with a fierce underwater maternity photo shoot.
What it Truly means to HELP- Essence Essential Hero Honoree Ray Nell Jones
Monique and Riley, joined by Ray Nell Jones, discuss the meaning and importance of helping your community.
Kitten to Stiletto – Heels for the Choosing
Life after baby is all about balance... in heels
My Favorite Mixes: Nasal Congestion & Sinus Infection
I always try nasal solutions on myself before applying them on my children. If it's too strong for me, then it's much too strong for my kids.
The Ear Infection Nightmare
How I avoided using antibiotics for my daughter's double ear infection.
My Favorite Mixes: Ear infection & Tonsillitis Remedy
Any time I treat the ears, I always also treat the nose and throat, since they’re all connected. See also Nasal Rinse For Nasal Congestion (This was for my 6-month old baby. Increase dosage for older children or adults...
Ways To Boost The Immune System
With all of the germs we expose ourselves to on a daily basis, it's nice to give our bodies a little boost. Who has time to be sick? Not me! Here are a few ways to keep a cold away... or at least to decrease the amount of sick...
Beauty Secrets Revealed- Keeping It All Together
Joined by Jeff aka Makeup Machine, responsible for Monique's amazing glam, Monique and Riley spill the secrets we all need for fresh, natural "beats."
From The Confessions Wall
Confession: Making A Home
Submitted by: Anonymous
Cleveland, OH
Sometimes I feel like a failure. I work 40 hours a week, and I spend much needed time with my son but unfortunately I just feel like I’m failing him because I don’t have a lot of things for him to really call our house a home. We have a home but we literally have no furniture besides a tiny “card table” and the beds in both of our rooms. it seems no matter how much my checks are there’s always bills bills bills and I can’t seem to save for anything because bills are never ending. I guess my confession is I wish I wasn’t failing in the area of giving my son a HOME HOME. My biggest wish for the year 2020 is to make that come true so I’m working towards it‼️ Wish me luck guys! Peace , Love & Light
Confession: Closed for Construction
Submitted by: Nicole
Silver Spring, MD
I said Chuck E. Cheese was closed up for repairs.
Confession: Moving On
Submitted by: Carmen
Woodland Hills, CA
The biggest fear I have is that I will never find love, peace or happiness in my life. My mind is constantly going in circles. After a year and a half of being divorced the hurt is still very much there, I feel like I've failed myself and my children. I find myself constantly checking up on my ex husband and seeing how he's moved on, and it makes me feel inadequate knowing I've yet to do the same
Upcoming Event: Sound Bath Meditation Series & Mila Eve Essentials Pop-Up
Take a deep dive into the realms of your consciousness. Immerse yourself in sound and meditate while doing it.
